"Gender and Sexuality, Stereotypes and Expectations - Are they Unfair?"

I wonder why it is that a man can be quite obese and not very attractive yet still expects to get a beautiful sexy woman. But if a woman is not very attractive, or is considered overweight, the best she can hope for is either to be single with no sex for the rest of her life or end up in a relationship where the man tells her how ugly she is and how she has to lose weight or lose him.

I wonder why it is that a man demands and expects oral sex whenever and wherever he wants them, but if a woman asks him to go down on her, it is only if and when he wants to do it. Oh, and too bad for the woman if, for some reason he doesn't to give oral sex to her because he says it smells or tastes funny. He thinks he can refuse and the woman is not allowed to even discuss it. Of course, it goes without saying that not all woman like to give oral sex to a man, and it sometimes grosses them out… but they are still expected to do it on demand.

I wonder why men insist upon their right to masturbate whenever and wherever they choose, using whatever means they wish (like masturbating with porn movies, magazines, or Internet pornography pictures). Plus, he only has to have sex with the woman if he chooses, but a woman is expected to have sex with the man when ever the man demands it. Even when dating, he can also get away with giving little or no foreplay and very little pleasure. If a woman says, "No" because she is not in the mood, she is called 'frigid' (or worse), But if the man says no to sex, he seems to think it is his right.

I wonder why men can use what ever sex toys they wish, but if a woman wishes to use sex toys she is often called 'sick' or 'selfish' or 'sexually disturbed'.

I wonder why a man can cheat on his spouse, and everyone calls him a 'stud'. But if a woman has sex with someone else, she is called a 'slut' or a 'whore'...

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